Planning Ahead for Dementia Care

Dementia Care

Simple steps that protect your loved one and give your family peace of mind.

Why planning early matters?

Planning ahead helps families avoid crisis decisions later. At Better at Home, we guide families through every stage of dementia care.

  • Have a voice in their care
  • Reduce stress on family members
  • Prevent confusion during emergencies
  • Avoid costly and time-consuming legal issues

1. What is an Advance Directive & why do I need one?

An advance directive is a legal document that outlines:

  • Who will make medical decisions if your loved one cannot
  • What kind of care they do or do not want
  • Where they prefer to receive care

In Georgia, this includes Power of Attorney (POA) for healthcare decisions.

Why it matters?

Without this document:

  • Doctors must make decisions without clear guidance
  • Families may disagree or feel overwhelmed
  • You may need to go to court to gain decision-making authority
When should this be done?

As early as possible. Ideally before cognitive decline progresses, while your loved one still has the ability to make decisions

Can I do this without a lawyer?

Yes, you can.

  • Use a state-specific form (free or low cost)
  • Prepare your wishes ahead of time to reduce legal fees

My workshop helps families think through these decisions before meeting with an attorney, saving time, money, and stress. Please contact me so we can review this together.

2. What happens if we don’t have one ?

If your loved one is already unable to make decisions:

  • Families may need to go through a court process (guardianship)
  • This can take months
  • It can be emotionally and financially draining

3. How do we prepare for emergencies?

Emergencies can happen suddenly. This could include:

  • Medical emergencies
  • Hospital visits
  • Natural disasters (storms, evacuation)
What should we have ready?

Create a simple “grab and go” kit with:

  • Medications and prescription list
  • Doctor and insurance information
  • ID and important documents
  • Clothing and hygiene items
  • Phone charger
  • Comfort item for your loved one
  • Water and non-perishable food

Pro tip: Leave early in emergencies and keep everything in one waterproof container.

Don’t wait until things feel overwhelming. Create a care team early, including:

  • Family members
  • Friends
  • Professional caregivers
What should everyone know?
  • Medications and schedule
  • Doctors and contact info
  • Emergency plan
  • Advance directive details
  • Who is making decisions in a crisis
Why this matters?

Clear roles prevent:

  • Confusion
  • Burnout
  • Family conflict

4. Who should be involved in caregiving?


5. How do we prevent wandering?

About 60% of people with dementia will wander at some point. This is one of the biggest safety risks.

Signs it may happen:
  • Restlessness or agitation
  • Talking about “going somewhere”
  • Trying to follow others out
What can we do now?

Make the home safer:

  • Secure doors and windows
  • Use locks or alarms
  • Consider motion sensors or monitoring system

Simple tricks that help:

  • Camouflage doors (same color as walls)
  • Place a dark mat in front of exits
  • Use signs like “STOP”

Important: GPS trackers help locate someone after they leave. They do not prevent wandering.

If someone wanders:
  • Call 911 immediately
  • Act fast. Time is critical

How Susan Helps?

Susan helps families:

  • Create a clear care plan
  • Prepare for emergencies
  • Navigate difficult decisions
  • Reduce stress and uncertainty

Her free workshop walks you through:

  • Dementia-specific care decisions
  • What most standard forms don’t cover
  • How to prepare before meeting with an attorney

You don’t have to figure this out alone. Planning early gives you clarity, confidence and peace of mind. And most importantly, it ensures your loved one’s wishes are honored.